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Better prompts get you a better first draft. A focused edit gets you the rest of the way. Here are both, with prompts you can copy.
By RealWrite Editorial Team6 min read
To make ChatGPT writing sound human, give it better inputs and then edit its output yourself. Feed it a sample of your own writing to match, the real details you want included, and a short list of phrases to avoid. Ask for varied sentence lengths and a clear opinion. Then edit the draft: cut stock phrases, add specifics, and read it aloud. Prompting gets you maybe two thirds of the way. The last third is editing.
This guide covers both halves, with prompts you can copy and adapt.
ChatGPT, like every large language model, writes by predicting likely next words. On top of that, chat models are tuned to be helpful, balanced and inoffensive. Put those together and you get a recognisable style: smooth sentences of similar length, careful hedging, tidy lists, stock transitions and a tendency to summarise at the end of everything.
We break down those patterns in detail in why writing sounds like AI. For this guide, the useful takeaway is that the default style comes from defaults. Change the inputs and you change the output.
"Write in a casual, friendly tone" produces a chatbot's idea of casual: exclamation marks, "let's dive in", forced jokes. A real sample of your writing is far more useful.
Here are three paragraphs I wrote recently. Study the sentence lengths, vocabulary and how I start and end paragraphs. Write the draft below in the same style. Do not copy my phrases, match my habits.
Paste in something you wrote without AI help, ideally in the same format (an email for emails, a blog post for blog posts). Two or three hundred words is enough.
Most of what makes writing sound generic is that the model has nothing specific to say, so it says general things. Fix that by supplying the specifics:
Include these details: we tested it with 12 customers in March, two of them cancelled because of the onboarding, and the fix was a shorter signup form. Use these facts, do not invent others.
The last sentence matters. Without it, models will happily make up plausible numbers and examples. Anything it does invent, check or delete.
Name the phrases you do not want. Models follow explicit negative instructions reasonably well, even if not perfectly.
Do not use: "delve", "landscape", "navigate", "crucial", "in today's world", "it's important to note", "furthermore", "moreover", "in conclusion". Avoid em dashes. Do not end paragraphs with a summary sentence.
Vary sentence length a lot. Some sentences should be under six words. Some can be over 30. Do not use more than two sentences of similar length in a row.
This is the single most effective style instruction we have found, because uneven rhythm is so characteristic of human writing.
Take a clear position and say it in the first paragraph. Do not give equal weight to both sides unless they really are equal.
Asking for a full draft in one go gives the model the most room to fall back on its defaults. Ask for an outline first, then fix it yourself: reorder the points, cut the generic ones, add the angle only you have. Then ask for the draft from your edited outline. You stay in charge of the structure, which is where most of the thinking lives.
Openings are where AI drafts are weakest. They tend to start with a broad statement about the topic ("In today's digital age...") before getting to the point. Write the first two or three sentences yourself, in your own words, and paste them in:
Here is my opening. Continue from here in the same voice, and keep the same level of directness.
The model will usually pick up the tone of what it is continuing, and your piece starts with a line that is actually yours.
Sometimes the best prompt is a smaller one. Ask for three alternative ways to phrase a tricky sentence. Ask for counterarguments you might have missed. Ask it to find the weakest paragraph in your own draft. Using a model as an assistant rather than a ghostwriter keeps the voice yours from the start.
Here is a combined prompt you can adapt:
Write a 600-word blog post about [topic] for [audience]. Here is a sample of my writing to match: [sample]. Use these facts and no others: [facts]. Take this position: [your view]. Vary sentence length a lot, including some very short sentences. Use plain words. Do not use: [banned list]. Avoid em dashes. No summary sentence at the end of paragraphs, and no "In conclusion" section.
Even with a great prompt, the draft will still have some of the model's habits. Plan for an editing pass. This is the part that actually makes the text yours.
Do this first, before you spend time polishing. Check every name, number, date, quote and claim. Delete anything you cannot verify. Language models present invented details in exactly the same tone as real ones.
Delete the first sentence of the piece if it is throat-clearing ("Writing is an important skill in many areas of life"). Delete any paragraph that only restates another. Remove stock transitions and hedges. You will often cut 15 to 20% of the length, and the text will be better for it.
Go through paragraph by paragraph and ask: what would I add here if I were explaining this to a friend? An example from your own work. A mistake you made. A detail from a source you actually read. A sentence of honest opinion.
ChatGPT draft:
Effective onboarding is crucial for customer retention, as it helps users understand the value of the product quickly.
After editing:
Two of our first twelve customers cancelled in the first week. Both told us the same thing: the signup form asked for too much before they had seen anything useful. We cut it from nine fields to three.
Listen for sentences that sound like a press release. Rewrite those until they sound like something you would say. Notice where three sentences in a row start the same way, and vary them.
If you write a lot of AI-assisted content, the mechanical part of the edit (breaking up rhythm, replacing stock phrases, varying sentence openings) gets repetitive. That is the part a humanizer tool is good at.
The workflow we use:
A humanizer does not replace steps 2 and 4. Our guide to humanizers vs paraphrasers explains what these tools actually change, and why a simple synonym swapper does not get the same result.
A few common requests tend to make things worse:
Whether you should use ChatGPT at all depends on context. Many workplaces welcome it. Many schools restrict it for graded work. If there is a policy, follow it, and if you are asked whether you used AI, answer honestly. Making a draft sound like you is about quality and voice. It is not a substitute for permission.
For the editing half in more depth, see our step-by-step guide to humanizing AI text. To try the Humanizer on your own draft, start free, or see the plans if you write regularly.
RealWrite Editorial Team
The RealWrite editorial team writes about AI detection, editing and how to keep your own voice when you draft with AI. We test what we write about on real drafts before we publish it.
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